Seduced by a Cougar...GRRRR.


Just to clarify, that's a "GRRR" of frustration, not a sexy, cougar-tastic growl. ;)
I just found out that my newest Naughty America scene is up now. It's on a site called "Seduced by A Cougar", which is a term I really dislike (though I had fun actually shooting it ;). So I thought I'd take a minute to vent about the words "cougar" and "milf", which are oh-s0-trendy in the porn biz right now.
The first few scenes I did where I was put in that category, I literally cried the whole time. I understand now that the porn Powers That Be basically use those terms for everyone over 25 (which I am, though not by much), but I still feel like they're widely considered derogatory terms. (I especially hate when I'm supposed to be playing a "cougar" to a guy who is my age or older, which is just plain silly! GRRRR, take 2! :)
A lot of people think I shouldn't do scenes with these titles, but I chose to bc I AM a "milf" (well, I'm definitely the "mom" part. The rest is up to others to decide, I suppose) and I AM a "cougar". At least I consider myself one, bc I don't believe a cougar has to be some pathetic old broad trying to desperately relive her youth (which is what a lot of people seem to think it is). By my definition, a cougar just enjoys fucking someone younger and less experienced than they are. Don't get me wrong- I enjoy being with people of all ages, but I will admit that "corrupting" someone less experienced than I am can definitely be a lot of fun!! :)
So, I will continue performing in these types of scenes, and hope that I can do a little something to help put these terms in a more positive light. And I'll also hope that people see me as more than just what the porn PTB choose to define me as...Maybe I'll start campaigning to make "Super Awesome Uber-Nerd Chick" a trendy new porn genre, as there's NO DOUBT I'd belong in that category. ;)
(Here are a couple SFW shots from the NA scene I was referencing, btw...Not my best pics ever, but whaddya gonna do? :)